If You Want to Get Married, Take the Popcorn Challenge

by | Dates. Marriage. Single

 

popcorn dating Zack Oates

The ACTUAL box of intervention popcorn.

8 years ago, my friends had an intervention for me.

 

“Zack, you date like popcorn. Just bouncing around everywhere. So we’re going to give you a challenge.”

 

They gave me a box with 8 bags of Old Fashioned Natural popcorn and wrote on the box the following, “The possessor of this box, Zack Oates, agrees to go on 8 separate dates with the same girl and on each date eat one bag of popcorn (one per date)” and made me sign it.

 

My roommates ate 3 bags without me asking over the years, so it was down to 5.

 

Truth be told, I don’t believe on going on movie dates (kissing) before a third date (until I met my fiancée, that is #sorrynotsorry).

 

Needless to say (yet for some reason I’ll still say it), I didn’t pop a single bag.

 

Now that I’m getting married, the 5 remaining bags are expired. BUT the principle of focusing on going on dates with one person changed my mentality and is what enabled me to get married.

 

A couple weeks ago, I blogged about not dating too many people at the same time because it is like putting a bunch of candy in your mouth at once and then trying to figure out which one you like the best. Candy and popcorn are the best couple ever to take to a movie…even if you’re the third wheel, so we’re going to put this to the test.

 

Here is your challenge:

Think of ONE person you are dating that you like the most or figure out someone you’d like to date. Now, hang out with them and then get them on a date. And then go on at least 5 dates in a row before you go out with anyone else.

 

Here’s the thing–dating, love, marriage–are all choices. A choice to be ready, a choice to be open and then a choice to be committed.

 

Everyone is loved incredibly by someone. Use those 5 dates in a row to find out why.
Take the popcorn challenge and get married!

 

 

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