At the start of this year, I got tired of not being able to see the world. So, as some of you may know, I’ve been traveling a lot lately.
When I share this with my married friends, they usually say, “Get that all out of your system now, because when you’re married . . .”
Then they trail off into an assumed negative statement of common knowledge about how marriage means that life isn’t fun or something. (I’m not sure because no one ever finishes that sentence.)
Sure, it becomes more expensive and more difficult (especially with kids). But does excitement have to be drained out of a relationship because of family?
In pondering over that question, I realized one of my biggest fears about marriage is that life will become audaciously ordinary, banal—dull.
Of the couples I have observed, there are very few marriages which look enjoyable to me. (Now admittedly, the couples in those relationships may be perfectly content; it just doesn’t seem like it would work for me.)
Not great odds. But determined to beat the odds, I started to consider the commonalities between the marriages I admired.
There were two factors I’ve noticed in marriages I admire:
1. They have respect for each other. They are friends.
2. They work for adventure. Not that they spend thousands of dollars a month traveling, but they share new experiences with each other.
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